A Period of Healing

The Importance of Healing

By Susan Leigh

A period of healing can be necessary after many different types of loss. When a person‘s life is devastated it can require time to heal, adjust and adapt before they become able to move on again.

There are several areas where this is important.

1. Death can be a terrible shock, even when a person has been ill for a long time. Partners and families gradually adjust to having an invalid in their midst and it can become a normal, accepted part of their lives. Taking time to reconcile to the loss can depend on several factors. Some people may have guilt and unfinished business with the person they have lost. Some people may feel bitter and angry at a life so sadly cut short, some people are bereft at the thought of what they are going to do now. There can be a combination of all these factors. Taking time to heal, maybe undertake grief counseling can help with the process of reconciling and healing.


2. Loss of a lifestyle can require healing. Some people may have lost their job or their business and fear that they will never work again. This can raise many issues. Money and income to pay the bills is often an immediate concern. But confidence, self-esteem and personal value can ultimately be more important. Some people feel that they will never heal from the trauma of being cast aside from their role in life. Many people define themselves through their job. Finding something useful and life-enhancing can take time to discover but counseling and hypnotherapy can often help a person understand what has happened to them and why, heal and then move on to start again.


3. Relationships end regularly, but that does not make accepting and coping with the loss of a special relationship any easier to bear. Even if their relationship was difficult at times many people are still caught by surprise when their partner says that it is over. Confidence can be an important factor, especially in a long-term relationship. People get used to their roles in a relationship and losing that structure can be a shattering situation for a time. Having to become more independent, learn how to do things oneself is often required at a time when they are at their most vulnerable, when their partner has just left. Healing can take a long time and many people are in danger of becoming a little cynical as a result of the experience.


4. Counseling can help the couple communicate better with each other, manage family concerns and understand each other’s point of view, whatever the outcome. Individual counseling and hypnotherapy can help with the recovery process, reclaiming one’s confidence and life and starting to live again with more hope and optimism.


5. Physical pain and loss of good health is a constant factor in some people’s lives. Having to cope with pain can cause depression and the loss of any quality of life. Having to manage pain either by medication or regular treatment can take over someones life. Hypnotherapy can help cope better because stress is often a factor to consider. People in pain often hold themselves differently, become tense as a result of their condition and are often afraid to move naturally in case they trigger more pain. There are certain techniques that can help manage chronic and regular pain more effectively.

And, frequently, when a person becomes less stressed they find that some of their pain symptoms lessen or even disappear. Headaches, miscellaneous aches and pains can occur as a result of stress. People often talk about feeling gutted, irritated or sick to the stomach. A lot of the phrases we use are manifestations of how we hold stressful situations in our bodies. Hypnotherapy is an effective way of letting go of those pains, becoming healthier and finding better ways to cope.

Healing is an important part of recovering from experiences that have damaged us, physically, mentally or emotionally. Allowing ourselves to take that time and use it well allows us to heal, learn from the experiences and move on, wiser and stronger as a consequence.

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The Greatest Spiritual Choice

The God of Fear & Separation as Your Architect

by: Richard Blackstone

Let us make the analogy that creating your life is like building a house. You are choosing God as your architect but you have a choice to make. You can choose the God of Love and oneness or you can choose the God of Fear and separation.

You have chosen the God of Fear and separation and therefore you believe yourself to be separate from this God and separate from all of life. Use your spiritual growth to put you in this scenario and then use the spirituality information in this article to see if this architect is serving you or not.

The first thing you realize is that by believing in this God of separation you understand that you need things that you don’t have and you also notice that this God is judging the way you desire to structure your life. If this God, that you are separate from, is judging the structure of your life and not providing a sufficient enough supply to fit your requirements, what is up with that?

Why would he fail to provide these requirements or keep them so far away, so separate from you that you would fail to meet your needs and thus so callously disrupt the structure of the life that you are constructing? Is he condemning you in some way? What is going on here?

Didn’t a benevolent God invite you into this physical world, which you are separate from, to live a life of peace, joy and love? Perhaps you haven’t lived up to your end of the bargain with this God that placed you here but is now separate from you and separate from everything you need to build your life.

Perhaps there are certain conditions that have to be met before he stops condemning you and begins to help you fulfill your needs. Whatever it is that he needs you would be glad to do, if you only knew what those needs were. Just let you know the conditions of your contract with this architect and you will do what you can to get on with the construction of your life.

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Obviously this architect we call God, which you are separate from, has the power to do anything she wants. She is all-powerful isn’t she? She must be because she is certainly superior to you. She created this universe and everything in it. You would certainly humble yourself before her if she would just help you a little and fulfill some of the basic needs you have that will allow you to fulfill the necessities that exist in building your life.

Well, maybe the problem is that you just don’t know what it takes to build the structure of your life. Maybe you are just too darn ignorant to understand the complexities involved in dealing with this architect called God, who is separate from you and you should just build the structure of your life haphazardly.

Maybe you should just use the materials in life that you can attain and seem to be in sufficient enough supply that they fu

The Beginning of Time (Photo credit: Stuck in Customs)

lfill part of your needs. You probably won’t be able to build the structure of your life in the manner that you truly desire. Maybe you will end up with a shack instead of a mansion but it’s not your fault. If you can’t get what you need to build your life, then you should just make do with what life throws to you.

Wow! That sounds like a tough way to build the structure of your life. There seems to be a lot of frustration and turmoil involved in the construction process. Our observation tells us that you may have hired the wrong architect. Our observations tell us that whenever you want to build a structure that will last, and give you the satisfaction that it has fulfilled your intentions and desires, you need to go back to the beginning and start off with a solid foundation.

The God you choose to believe in is critical to creating a solid foundation for your life. Do you choose the God of separation and fear or the God of oneness and love? It is your choice.

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A Period of Healing

The Importance of Healing

By Susan Leigh

A period of healing can be necessary after many different types of loss. When a person‘s life is devastated it can require time to heal, adjust and adapt before they become able to move on again.

There are several areas where this is important.

1. Death can be a terrible shock, even when a person has been ill for a long time. Partners and families gradually adjust to having an invalid in their midst and it can become a normal, accepted part of their lives. Taking time to reconcile to the loss can depend on several factors. Some people may have guilt and unfinished business with the person they have lost. Some people may feel bitter and angry at a life so sadly cut short, some people are bereft at the thought of what they are going to do now. There can be a combination of all these factors. Taking time to heal, maybe undertake grief counseling can help with the process of reconciling and healing.


2. Loss of a lifestyle can require healing. Some people may have lost their job or their business and fear that they will never work again. This can raise many issues. Money and income to pay the bills is often an immediate concern. But confidence, self-esteem and personal value can ultimately be more important. Some people feel that they will never heal from the trauma of being cast aside from their role in life. Many people define themselves through their job. Finding something useful and life-enhancing can take time to discover but counseling and hypnotherapy can often help a person understand what has happened to them and why, heal and then move on to start again.


3. Relationships end regularly, but that does not make accepting and coping with the loss of a special relationship any easier to bear. Even if their relationship was difficult at times many people are still caught by surprise when their partner says that it is over. Confidence can be an important factor, especially in a long-term relationship. People get used to their roles in a relationship and losing that structure can be a shattering situation for a time. Having to become more independent, learn how to do things oneself is often required at a time when they are at their most vulnerable, when their partner has just left. Healing can take a long time and many people are in danger of becoming a little cynical as a result of the experience.


4. Counseling can help the couple communicate better with each other, manage family concerns and understand each other’s point of view, whatever the outcome. Individual counseling and hypnotherapy can help with the recovery process, reclaiming one’s confidence and life and starting to live again with more hope and optimism.


5. Physical pain and loss of good health is a constant factor in some people’s lives. Having to cope with pain can cause depression and the loss of any quality of life. Having to manage pain either by medication or regular treatment can take over someones life. Hypnotherapy can help cope better because stress is often a factor to consider. People in pain often hold themselves differently, become tense as a result of their condition and are often afraid to move naturally in case they trigger more pain. There are certain techniques that can help manage chronic and regular pain more effectively.

And, frequently, when a person becomes less stressed they find that some of their pain symptoms lessen or even disappear. Headaches, miscellaneous aches and pains can occur as a result of stress. People often talk about feeling gutted, irritated or sick to the stomach. A lot of the phrases we use are manifestations of how we hold stressful situations in our bodies. Hypnotherapy is an effective way of letting go of those pains, becoming healthier and finding better ways to cope.

Healing is an important part of recovering from experiences that have damaged us, physically, mentally or emotionally. Allowing ourselves to take that time and use it well allows us to heal, learn from the experiences and move on, wiser and stronger as a consequence.

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