Showing posts with label Failure. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Failure. Show all posts

Sunday, 21 September 2014

How To Get Success And Deal With Frustration

by: Rob Bom


It can be very frustrating when you think you have everything you need to succeed, but still not achieving any results. Lots of people quit when things get too complicated or takes too much time. I will give you 3 steps that might help you to still get what you want, without pressing the exit button(quitting)


Most quit as soon as they hit a wall. To get some achievements you will need to break through that wall as this will be the only way to get to the other side. If you are staying behind the wall, you will never see what is behind it.


1. There is no success without failure


Don’t be afraid to make mistakes, if you want to achieve success. There was a commercial a while ago where Michael Jordan talks about all his failures. He missed a million times when he was shooting at the rim, but by practice and focus he got past it and was able to shoot 3 pointers without any problems. Stop, don’t go to youtube yet, read on…


2. Evaluate where you can do better


Don’t focus on what you do wrong, but look at what you could do better. When you have determined what improvements you can make, decide what actions you need to take. Plan them in and and of-course take them!


3. Don’t stress yourself out


One of the major obstacles I ran across was stressing myself out if I could not get something done in one day. I wanted to achieve results so badly that I stressed myself out by doing more and more. However it is not about doing more, it is about doing things smarter. Try to find people that have the results you are looking to get and speak to them. They might give you advise on how to get things done smarter.


Stay positive and you will achieve the results you are looking for. Most are not able to stay positive which leads to failure, quitting. Doing something wrong is not failing, it is self development. Quitting or being feared to do something is failure. Not doing what you need to do will keep you in the same box.


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Friday, 19 September 2014

Will Power: Learning to Focus for Success

by: Glenn Cutforth


Developing your will-power is directly related to your success in life. No one can over-estimate the power of your will to do.


Most people do not fail because of a lack of education. History is filled with uneducated or poorly educated millionaires who didn’t let this supposed shortcoming hold them back. On the contrary, what they may have lacked in education was obliterated by their overpowering will to succeed no matter how many times they failed along the way.


It is the lack of determination and concentrated will-power that is the true reason most people fail. Just as an athlete trains for a physical game that takes concentrated effort to accomplish, the mind must also be trained with the proper skills to win in life.


The process of obtaining this self-mastery – the complete command of your mind’s powers – is a gradual one. It involves determination and the daily task of making it a habit. Once you have self-mastery, the cost of obtaining it will bring a real sense of accomplishment and a realization how minimal the cost really was in the long run.


You don’t need to be a genius to succeed – just make yourself do the thing you have to do when it has to be done, whether you like it or not. It’s one of the best lessons you can learn!


In “The Power of Concentration” Theron Q. Dumont makes a powerful statement when he says, “Do not expect that you will always have easy sailing. Parts of your journey are likely to be rough. Don’t let the rough places put you out of commission. Keep on with the journey. Just the way you weather the storm shows what material you are made of. Do not let a setback stop you. Think of it as a mere incident that has to be overcome before you can reach your goal.”


When Henry Ward Beecher was asked how he could accomplish so much more than others, he replied, “I don’t do more, but less than other people. They do all their work three times. Once in anticipation, once in actuality, and once in rumination. I do mine in actuality alone, so I end up doing things just once.”


Beecher could concentrate his mind on what he was doing at a given moment. Then he’d go to something else and concentrate on it. One of the secrets of a successful life is to be able to focus all our energies on one thing at a time.


Don’t waste your time worrying as it only crowds your thoughts with worthless clutter. Focus on what you’re doing while you’re doing it, and stop worry before it stops you. Worry is an energy zapper. It reduces your chances of success and it can make life just as miserable for those around you.


Learning to focus your efforts is the only way you will achieve the success you’re capable of. The earlier in life you learn this simple fact, the more likely you will overcome everything that slows you down and prevents you from true success in everything you do.


Here’s a recipe for a wasted life – just go about every day trying to do too many things at once. Splitting yourself up into a hundred parts leads to nowhere.


The old saying in real estate is: Location, Location, Location.


In life, it very well could be: Focus, Focus, Focus.


Some people like to juggle a number of tasks. Some people are even good at it. But most of us need to concentrate our efforts on one task at a time in order to reach our goals. It’s not the amount of work you do in an hour or a day or even a year, but it’s your persistence in constantly moving forward that will get you where you want to go.


Keep at it! And remember …


Focus, Focus, Focus.








About The AuthorGlenn Cutforth is a well respected publisher of quality eBooks. He is the owner of Zxmaxx Communications (http://www.zxcomm.com) and has recently published the Self-Help Success Collection at http://ift.tt/1kPEQy9, a series of Self-Help classics that have helped many people find new meaning and direction in their lives.





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Sunday, 14 September 2014

10 Beliefs of The Super Successful

10 Top Beliefs of Super Successful People

by: Mark Edward Duin


There’s really only one major thing that separates successful people from those who are trapped in mediocrity or failure. So, what is this “one thing”?


You see success is not determined by circumstances or luck or even hard work. Success is primarily determined by what you really believe, deep down, about yourself. Here’s the proof…


Today I am compensated in 6 figures, have a 19 year successful marriage to my one and only wife, own a self improvement business and have a list of great accomplishments longer than my 6’,3” little brother. All this in spite of the fact that I’m a former 9th grade drop out and homeless drug addict, who didn’t even get a GED (high school equivalency) till the age of 27! So, what “one thing” made the difference and turned me around?


The major differences I’ve observed in others and that I’ve personally experienced between these vary different levels of failure and success are found in fundamental belief systems.


Here are 10 common beliefs owned by some of the most successful people I’ve ever had the pleasure to encounter. You may want to incorporate these into your own belief system!


1. I believe I am 100% responsible for my own life.


2. Whether I believe I can or I can’t my results equal my belief.


3. I believe failure is a great teacher that leads me closer to success.


4. I believe no task is too small to give my best effort.


5. I believe it’s what I know and who I know.


6. I believe in asking “What can I do right now to make things better?”


7. I believe in valuing and respecting self and others equally.


8. Whether I look for opportunities or obstacles I find what I’m looking for.


9. I believe in something greater than myself.


10. I control my thoughts, my thoughts control my beliefs, my beliefs control my actions, my actions create my success or failure.


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